CONFIDENCE: how to achieve it?

One of the most popular problems the majority of girls are facing in today's society: SELF-CONFIDENCE issues ... before I talk about how to fix this and how to be more confident I will expose some things (in my opinion) that are the reason behind the low self-esteem we've all suffered from at some point of our lives.The ads, the TV shows and the cruel fashion industry are intreducing images of the perfect body/ face/skin that are most of the time if not all the time unrealistic. every girl have felt "not good enough" at least once while watching  perfumes ads or even  cereals ads which can be intimidating sometimes ... we're introduced to "perfection" and "ideal types" very early and it has a major impact on our personnalities and the way we see and love ourselves. the problem is that most of what we see is unreal: girls are starving themselves to look the way they do, they workout everyday hoping to become "the dream of evey girl"... It is so hard and hurting not to love the person you truly are and all those tries to change who you are just to please the society are not going to make you feel anty better .. it will just make you suffer more, now I'm not saying that it's easy to change that or that you can love yourself once you say "I am going to accept myself the way I am" ... 

but trust me: everything is possible with willing, all you have to do to achive something is to actually want it, REALLY WANT IT and that will give you the power to  CHANGE ANYTHING AND DO ANYTHING because human beings have a tremendous power inside them, a power that they don't know it exists but once they decide they want something it just appears and they can feel it ... a lot of girls are struggling with weight issues and skin issues thinking that a clear skin with no blemishes is the ultimate beauty goal, that acne makes them ugly and unwanted, others do everything to lighten their skins thinking that only light skin tones are beautiful, always having a straight hair, going on really bad diets and fail eventually ... Now I'm not saying that making yourself feel pretty is wrong! after all I'm running a beauty blog and I love fashion (well makeup a little less :p ) but still! I believe that every girl should feel good about herself and do things that she enjoys doing ... if you wanna go on a healthy diet because you're worried about your health or because you don't like that muffin top you can totally go for it but what I'm attacking here is doing all those crazy stuff to please a society that no matter what you do to please them they will criticize you anyway ...

You must know that if you don't love yourself no one is going to do it for you and believe me even those who seem to care at the beginning will lose interest and won't bother hurting you if you don't respect and love yourself but especially show it (I CAN TOTTALY MAKE AN ARTICLE ABOUT HOW TO FAKE SELF-CONFIDENCE). because showing people that you love yourself is the beginning of gaining their respect.

The point of this article is to tell you that god has created us different we are black, yellow white etc ... we're tall and short, some of us have curly hair, others have straight hair, some are curvy others are less curvy ... and it's that difference that make every girl interesting, it's what makes every one of us unique and special. and no matter how people try to judge you according to your looks or accent or nation or thoughts! don't let that tear you down and don't try to change it. and keep in mind that people who care about you and who really appreciate you won't try to change you and will accept you the way you are.
Try to love your imperfections (if you wanna call them imperfections because to me they're not), they're a part of you and they make you  who you are: A WONDERFUL WOMAN who knows what's she deseves <3 Take care and LOVE YOURSELF <3